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Shonna Trinch journal research articles talks about Latino community women in particular and how they experience rape in a social legal justice system in America. Culture norms in society of what is expected of men and women are complex.. In this case Latino women are getting rape by their husband however, when they make a report unfortunately things does not look good for them. The justice system blame them (women) for being in that situation. Husbands them use their children as a means to get the women doing what they want. The child them gets stuck in the middle, from their mental disorders develop and the mother is in a more difficult situation. The mother has to take a stand against culture norm of what is expected of them.
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"I feel there is something unexplored about woman that only a woman can explore." - Georgia O'Keeffe |
Women don't need men for sex, men needs us women. Men think they might be superior but think about it carefully they really are not. They might makes more money than us, more financially dependent that us but that's just how society treat them. Give women a chance and you’ll see women do not need men especially when it comes to sex. In Shonna Trinch eyes this generation, women are independent. They can do things for themselves they don't need to be dependent on men. We have a voice, we can take a stand on this, we can help each other out. “No means no,” but for men apparently no means yes. This understanding that men have needs to be fixed.
Shonna Trinch conducts a program call Seeing Rape. Where nine John Jay students write plays or scripts where gender norms, sexual assault, sexual harassment, rape, sex, bisexuality is seen, by doing so Trinch shows the audience that rape is not acceptable. Secondly, if you have been raped to talk out and say something do not be afraid because it is just not you alone in this world anymore. It have many women all different age and background that experience the same thing as you. Thirdly, men including can get rape or even sexually assaulted and men won't even speak out against it for multiple reasons such as: they afraid they might be fired from there job or maybe even if they tell someone that person won't believe them and it makes it harder on them and it can even affect them on the fact that they will not be seen as men but women in regards that they are weak. Fourthly, she is trying to open people's mind both men and women but men in particular about their social construct gender norms and behaviors. |
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Rape in Latino community is very common especially since the gender social construct of latino women as being anismo meaning submissive and men while men on the other hand are machismo meaning they are the financial stability, head of the household, provides warmth and food for the family etc. Trinch’s (2007) study provides birds eye view on, "...how women in abusive relationships can actually establish their... authority through what have been labeled as ‘oppressive’ gender roles. Males and females alike that... fail to enact the roles that culture expects of them are often subjected to punishments that may range from name calling…” (p. 55). In many of these cases with Latino women staying in these abusive relationships is due to their gender social constructs in society. Since, the women can not leave because the idea that they are not meant to be the “head of the household” is something that has been within their culture every since they were babies. You tend to see these cases where abusive relationships are found in Latino women the legal justice system ends up framing the women for being unable to take care of her child or children. When society ends up doing this approach you then begin to question yourself well why don’t the Latino community of women do not be submissive and under men. Why won’t society let Latino women stand up for them-self? |
Trinch’s (2011) study on forging violence against women Latino women in particular specially with abused partners highlights, “... Anystate’s Family Code in order to apply for a protective order, the person victimized has to be related to the alleged abuser in specific ways.n these intimate-partner cases, a woman is eligible for a protection from abuse order if she (1) is related to the alleged perpetrator by blood or marriage, (2) is/was/had been living with him, and/or (3) has a child with him. In other words, residence, marriage and biological connection through offspring are the objective criteria used by interviewers to determine if complaining women meet the state’s eligibility requirements to apply and file for a protective order,” ( p. 398). Why won't society let Latino women be independent rather than depending on a husband. Men then use the children against their mothers in this notion abusive men are seen as good fathers are such contradiction in definite view.
“... in practice the standard for what constitutes rape is set not at the level of women's experience of violation but just above the level of coercion acceptable to men.” - Judith Lewis Herman |
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Rape is not acceptable but yet no legal system is taking a stand against this for Latino women. Shonna Trinch points out that when she interviewed the clients, Latino women are not supposed to use such crude language instead they indirectly use language to describe the scenario, “ Instead of blatantly stating, ‘Then he tried to rape me’, or ‘Then he tried to sodomize me’, she selects a descriptive phrase, ‘…y luego quiere sexo por, por donde no se debe’, or ‘then he wants sex where you’re not supposed to have sex’, in order to explain what happened.” (Trinch, 2007, p. 61). As the Latino women did this she is trying to say that I would not put myself in the same light as my husband and men brutish behavior. I would not stoop down to that kind of behavior and as a lady I will carry myself with dignity.
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I will explain the situation to the best of my ability without being as crude as my husband by doing so Latino women are standing proud and standing up to rape. Rape is a very serious crime, women need to take a stand but they don’t have enough confidence in order to get that going. Even in workplaces, sexual assault is taken place, even sexual harassment occurs in the street. It happens every way you go, it's never ending but we have to let people be more evident to this cause. We have to spread news around the world, we can’t let this stay the same forever. Around the globe this is happening this starts now, our words need to loud and clear to men and society as a whole. We can’t let society and men bring us down even more. We as women have to take a stand on this otherwise we’ll always stay the same.
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